I would love it if I would be accepted as a drummer for belly or tribal dance, but alas, the same creep factor seems to be at play. Take her to a concert, go to a play. A guy like me does not appeal to beautiful women. Now I never previously cared if a partner of mine had money or not, until now, since I have been dating someone for 3 months, who has no money. Eventually, it got to be too much and I closed my profile.